I’m going to start out by informing you that the right approach depends purely on your mindset. If your mindset is something like “I want to stop this super hot sexy lady and get her number” you are attaching to your outcome too much. Putting too much pressure on yourself and creating anxiety. When you go in with a much more relaxed mindset like “I want to talk to this person and see if I can make them smile” it becomes a lot easier to do an approach.
There are many different mindsets that can be useful in approaching women(or men) to bring the anxiety levels down and the motivation and confidence up.
One Great mindset – That this is just a dream. If there was a dream and they are part of my imagination would I be scared to talk to them? Of course not! Next time you see someone you want to talk to, just think to yourself this is just a dream and I want to talk to this dream person. It can throw off your anxiety all together. What if the interaction goes badly? Who cares its just a dream!
Another word you could use instead of mindset is intention. Depending what your intention is depends how easily you manifest it. Instead of intending to have sex with every person you approach just intend on seeing if they have the qualities you want in a man/woman. This can also be called qualifying. Qualifying is very important as it quickly and easily identifies those you want to continue interacting with and those you would rather not waste your time on. Now I’ll combine all of these elements into one method below:
Method One
Intention/Mindset: “I want to make you smile”
Context: “This is just a dream so i don’t have to be nervous”
Pickup line: “Hi I just saw you walking past and just had to say hello. Are you always this good looking or am I still dreaming?”
That is all. Just the basics and your good to roll. The more you work on these intentions and mindsets the easier it will be to approach!
If you’d like to know more tips that will help you communicate your attractive qualities see 7 Tips To Increase Your Attraction Level