Below are 7 very important tips to help you communicate in an attractive way with the people in your life & the ones desire but don’t know how to attract. Remember over 70% of communication is non-verbal. Does that mean you can say almost anything and attract who you want? The short answer is YES! Read below to see how to improve that 70% of your game.
1. Relax
If your on edge, your going to make the other person nervous and panicky. The more relaxed you are, the more relaxed they will be too. I don’t mean be completely dead and non-energetic. The next tips will all compliment each other so I won’t go anymore into this one.
2. Be non-reactive
When they are testing you or insulting you or anything offensive. If you show that you are unaffected by them it will show that you don’t get put out easily and will gain some respect and higher status in their head.
3. Eye contact
Easy on the eyes. Make sure to look into their eyes at least once until they look away or if it goes on too long. You don’t want to creep them out but you don’t want to seem like a wuss. Through eye contact you can convey many messages. I like to look at them like I am smiling at them in my head or just want to kiss them. Not too intense. If you know what your doing you can give them intense sexual eye contact but it may be too strong for some however others will then get turned on and you’ll be instantly very attractive to them. It also often turns on their sexual organs in the body and can make it harder for them to follow an intellectual conversation. Can be used to your advantage easily 
4. Don’t fidget
Just don’t do it. If you really need to move your hands or feet you can lean slightly from one side to the other very slowly so no one notices, or with your hands you can run them down the stream on the side of your jeans(if your wearing jeans) slowly and it will not very overtly obvious.
5. Be grounded
Have your feet on the ground. Feel the soles of your feet. Direct your attention into your body and into the ground and this leads perfectly into the next tip.
6. Get out of your head
That is right. You don’t want to be thinking too much when interacting with perspective lovers or whoever you like. If your in your body and out of your head. You can interact in a state of flow and you’ll find holding a fun conversation with a lot less effort. This is not chess. You don’t need to think 5 moves ahead. Just be present and let it flow!
7. Talk Slow & Deep
This is very important. The slower you talk and deeper(if your male) the better the other person will understand you and feel attraction. The other reason is often you speak too fast when your a little nervous. So slowing it down might just bring it back to normal pace. I like to turn it down about HALF what I think it should be. The bass in your voice when you talk deeply and slowly really turns women on. For women, talking slower is also very important as often you’ll flood the man with too much energy and he may get overwhelmed.
You don’t need to try and remember all of these things at once. Obviously that would contradict the 6th tip. Just pick one and make a conscious effort to implement it into your everyday interactions. After awhile it will become subconscious. Once that happens pick another one until you have all 7 tips on auto-pilot. Now go attract whoever catches your attention!
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Best article ever, I am a huge nerd.. No more! After this knowledge is put to good use. I’ll stop playing wow and start going after the type of girls i really desire instead of the easy ones which come after me